We recommend that you and your spouse take

the Four Gifts of Love® Class.


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But if you are not sure, please let us try to gently persuade you ...

No one WANTS Type 2 diabetes. Right?

Yet according to recent research, this debilitating health issue affects about 1 in 10 adults not only in the US but worldwide (e.g., the Philippines reports 13% of adults).

So, if you knew you were pre-diabetic, what would you DO?

If you knew your family genetics and/or current unhealthy diet lifestyle would GUARANTEE a lifestyle of finger pricks for glucose checks, medication, and regular insulin shots, what would you DO?

I think I know the answer. It’s what I did ... I did a RADICAL lifestyle change to stop the course of Type 2 diabetes in my body. I call it radical because, at the time, it was VERY different than my unhealthy lifestyle.

Now, the once RADICAL lifestyle is NORMAL and healthy and Type 2 diabetes FREE!

But I’m not wanting to talk to you about diabetes.

I want to talk to you about something related. Marriage.

Sadly, most don’t realize that marriage will affect more areas of life than diabetes.

If you knew your family models and/or current unhealthy marital lifestyle would GUARANTEE a lifestyle of emotional suffering for not only you but your children, family, community, physical health, finances, mental health, job … and so much more … WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

Your marriage will affect more areas of life than any other relationship. Don’t believe me? Just take a minute and imagine a marriage in turmoil and ask yourself, “What areas are affected?”

When I ask this question when facilitating the Four Gifts of Love® Class, we come up with over 30 areas of life impacted by marriage.

I’m sure you would agree that marriage is an important part of life, but what if I told you that your loss of love in marriage, or I should say, the LIFESTYLE that RESULTS in a loss of love, has a high likelihood of making your life a living hell on earth.

Did you know that about 1 in 5 marriages (80%) will lose their feeling of love during their lifetime? This is sadly the NORM, but it doesn’t need to be that way!

I understand that your marriage may be comfortable and you are busy with so many productive areas of life, like parenting, ministry, work, and caring for elderly parents.

But if you can’t say that you are “in love” with your spouse, and I mean the similar feeling that encouraged you to get married in the first place, I predict you will have troubles up ahead.

Maybe those troubles won’t be now, but they will happen when there are “storms” in life or when the distractions of life lessen (e.g., "empty nesting").

But I’ll say it again … it doesn’t need to be that way! You can DO something NOW!

You can sustain your feeling of romantic love for a lifetime.

And what was unhealthy before can become a wonderful new NORMAL!

Your marital happiness is so important to us, Dr. Jennifer Harley Chalmers and Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr., that we have both dedicated our professional lives to helping couples like you.

We spent over 30 years developing and researching the Four Gifts of Love® curriculum concepts that are intended to provide a template for sustaining romantic love in marriage … A new NORMAL … A LIFESTYLE where the symptom is LOVE in your MARRIAGE!

Romantic love can be sustained in marriage. That is a fact.

This concrete marriage education provides step-by-step assignments, interactive animated review videos, and wisdom that is unique and both empirically and anecdotally verified in our professional lives (a cumulative 80 years of experience).

You don’t have time? Well, how much time does it take to deal with the hardships of a hurting marriage?

8-weeks. About 2 hours of home assignments each week, 1.5 hours of class sessions each week. That’s a total of 3.5 hours per week for only 8 weeks! I imagine you surf the Internet or social media more than that (no judgment ... just stating possible facts).

I go back to my initial example of diabetes. If you could learn about a lifestyle that would prevent diabetes, would you give 3.5 hours a week for 8 weeks? Of course, you would.

So if you could learn about a lifestyle that would protect your marriage, and all the areas of impact, like your children especially, would you give 3.5 hours a week?  I hope so!

The same concepts within this class have helped millions of hurting marriages, spanning the globe for over 40 years.

Here is only one, touching 4-minute testimonial about the effect of a Four Gifts of Love® lifestyle that was created by taking the class. 


The Four Gifts of Love® lifestyle is both a healing lifestyle and a protective lifestyle. So, no matter where you are in your marriage, or even if one is willing and the other has only one foot in, it’s a start and at least something to redirect the “ship” to happiness.

We don’t have a cure for diabetes, but we have a cure for a hurting marriage. All you need to do is click a button to get more free information about our class and free resources. What are you waiting for?

Let’s change one family legacy at a time, starting with you!

BUT THERE’S MORE … (love that phrase in info-mercials!)

Now, there is another relationship that many don’t include as most impacting in life.  It’s our relationship with our Creator.

A relationship with God affects more areas of life than a marriage and much, much more, just trust me!

So, since these two relationships will affect your life more than any other relationship, it only makes sense to provide a class that uses the same four gifts with both relationships, right?

(And don’t worry … you may or may not believe in God, that’s ok. But still, I ask that you attend the class for only the marriage part ... it’s your choice.)

THE FOUR GIFTS OF LOVE®CLASS… It’s a FOUNDATION that PROTECTS the feeling of romantic love in marriage and passion for God!


Dr. Jennifer Harley Chalmers